The answer appears to be that I need to relinquish control. It's not like I can control the IRS, a remodel from 3,500 miles away, or someone who's behaving irrationally (just to name a few sources of my stress). But perhaps I've been trying to do just that: To control things that are totally out of my control.
Perhaps some of us are slow learners...obviously I am. But thankfully, God is patient and kind. He is always trustworthy. Lord, please help me to relinquish control and remember that You truly do have the entire universe under control. You are my "refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble. Therefore I will not fear, though the earth give way and the mountains fall into the heart of the sea, though its waters roar and foam and the mountains quake with their surging." (Psalm 46:1-3)